i can remember when Decapolis was a great place to discuss any number of things.  there were a number of people on there that i admired, and i often learned important spiritual lessons from the faith board.

Decapolis, as a message board community, is no longer like this.  it's become a cesspool of moral relativism.  see Vent >> Gay Men for a good example.

i wouldn't be flattered if a gay man hit on me.  i might not react other than to say that "i'm not gay".  but then i might be disgusted.  because homosexuality is a sin, and abhorrent to the one and only true God.  it's unnatural, it's biologically illogical, and it's revolting.  many people on Decapolis claim to follow that God, and yet only my Sarah will speak up with courage and say "no, this is wrong."  i don't know if i'll say anything, she said everything i would have.